Your mental illness may sometimes directly affect those you love. Due to your behaviour and your attitudes.
Do not change for someone else.
Change only for yourself.
Then… It’ll have great ripple effects in your personal life.
But if you do it for someone else, that means you’re putting all your worth and meaning in them and that is no foundation to build your happiness and well-being on. And the foundations will break and it will happen again.
Then love will follow.