You can get nowhere if you envy others, you’ll always search for reasons to be unhappy.
I’m just asking you why the fuck would you want to see bad things in your life? Why would you want to believe you’re limited to or by anything? Why would you want to look at others in envy of what they have and what you want? Why not look at what you have for happiness and what you want as motivation for bigger and better things?
We have all known negative attitudes ones that feel their own fate is controlled solely by others; in some parts of the world and in some aspects of all of our lives that may be true- here I come to issues of politics and economy – but there is something you can always gain control of and that is your state of mind.
Why would you limit your state of mind to anything so physical as money and rules? Why not focus on the intangible things of feeling, charisma, excitement, happiness and uncontrollable force of nature.
There’s always someone better than you: richer than you; stronger than you; ‘more talented’ than you; more blessed than you. There will be people with better families, better backgrounds, better bonds with their siblings. better fucking clothes – better whatever.
What is dwelling on this fact going to do? Can you please tell me how its productive If you find a regular thought process that you have is not productive for you – replace it with something that is. Kick it out. It’s only limiting you.
Stop looking towards others in prospect of seeing how your life should be and place attention on YOURSELF.
We are a race obsessed with the lives of others before our very own.
Let’s just get real, with our own reality.